Compelling Her to Respond

An example of a fun statement that requires addition information would be: “I just figured out what you would be if you were an animal.”

If she wants to know the answer she has to text you back. The secret is to make the statement about her personally. Nothing makes a person more curious than what someone else thinks about them.

Getting a girl you are interested in to respond to your first text uses the same method you would use to get anyone to respond, by asking a question or making a statement that calls for more information.

Though this may sound easy, it requires some thought to put into practice. Not any statement or question will do, otherwise “Hey what’s up?” would be an ideal first message.

There was this guy I met and he seemed really nice and cool and funny and he was soooooo cute with the most amazing smile ever, but i didn't like him cause i didn't know him very well. So one day, i was coming out of class, and he was there in back of me and i turned around and he kissed me unexpectedly and it was really cute and this happened on January 9, 2008, and then that same day, he kissed me again when i was coming out of school,& i felt like the luckiest girl alive, and we got to know each other very well and we became really good friends and we liked each other alot, and then one day on January 22,2008, i was coming out of 3rd period and his class is right next to mine and i guess you can say we kinda made out cause our kiss lasted about 10 seconds! and now we've forgotten about each other, and he's out there kissing his girlfriend who i guess is his true love while i'm still loving him, but luckily i stopped after 3 months. Thank God, i did, but i do & will miss him ]: - Anonymous, 12, Miami,FL

You don’t..........

You don’t always need to reply the instant she texts you. By taking some time to respond you imply that you are a busy guy with a lot going on.

You’ve only just met her and she doesn’t deserve your undivided attention just yet. By making always making yourself available to respond or constantly texting her you are going to make her think that you don’t have anything else going on in your life.

But don’t take this to the extreme and wait hours to respond to every text. It’s important to mix it up, if you wait too long to respond to each of her texts she may decide that you aren’t interested and move on.

The important thing is to establish that you have a full life, even if at the moment that may not be the case.

Note: Stay engaged if you are in an important conversation. Stay engaged until the subject changes or one o you indicates you need to go.

I was thirteen and i was hanging out with at my best guy friends house with my other friends, and we were getting really bored. There was going to be a dance that night and we were all gonna go together so we were at his house for about 5 hours before. Anyway like I said we were getting bored with watching youtube videos, and my best friend Melinda asked me truth or dare, and i said dare, cuz im not a chicken, and they are more fun.

So she dared me to do something stupid like get her a water bottle or sumthin, and it went on like that until i wanted it to get a little more serious, so i dared her to kiss her boyfriend ( at the time, hes a jerk now ) on the cheek, and she did. My best guy friend, David, had gone downstairs cuz he needed a different shirt for the dance, and it right when i said dare when Melinda asked me,he came back upstairs, And she said, i dare you to kiss David on the lips, and he was just like wow i came up at a bad time didnt i. I was kinda in shock, cuz i had never kissed a guy before, but i knew he had, he had told me all about it many times.

And so i was just kinda standing there and Mel's boyfriend said to my friend Jess who wasnt paying much attension, look they have to kiss. And she looked up and and kinda laughed. so me and David were kinda just staring in shock at each other, and Jess pulled out her cell phone, and was gonna take a picture. And well David had a girlfriend, andhe really liked her, but he also isnt a chicken and always did dares, so i had no idea what was gonna happen, but as soon as Jess pulled out her camera phone, he was like noo, and he leaned forward and grabbed my face in his hands, and put his lips right on mine, and it wasnt just like a peck, but it wasnt a french kiss either, but our mouths were both kinda open and i didnt expect it at all it was so sudden at first i didnt know what had happened, and then the kiss was over, and i was just standing there in shock and he kinda turned around, and Me l said that while he was kinda turned around he had a little smile on his face, but when he turned back he looked normal, and it was only a second so no one noticed. Mel's boyfrien, Mark, was just surprised that he had actually kissed me, and Jess was trying to see if she had gotten the picture,but she didnt. Mark sais Dave, what about Becca ( his girlfriend at the time ) he said thats why i had to, i couldnt have a picture, and i was perfectly ok with that.

I know the kiss didnt mean anything at all to him, but it meant everything to me, and he and Becca later broke up, but not because of me, because i found out later that she didnt care beacuse she knew it didnt mean anything, and shes also not the jealous type.

Alot has happened since then, and i now think that i might be in love with aDavid, and i know its probably just teen love, but it doesnt really matter cuz i know he doesnt like me like that, but he is still my best friend, and the most beautiful person i have ever met. we are completely comfortable with each other, and i know he cares about me, and he knows i care about him, but im pretty sure thats all that we will ever be, and i think im actually ok with that, as long as i can still be his friend forever. Well long story short, i had my first kiss with the guy of my dreams, and it was definatly the best day of my life. - anonymous, 14, California

DO NOT!!!!!!!

Here are a few more examples of good first text messages:
“what r u up to crazyface?”
“What has a bottom at the top? -[your name]” (the answer to this one is “your legs, silly!”)
All of these are interesting enough that she’s going to want to text you back. So far, so good.
She might text you back something like “who is this?”, but don’t lose your cool. Just keep the flirty texts coming, and send her something sassy like…

“Your arch-enemy of course…”
DO NOT just tell her “It’s [your name] from [the place you met],” because that is what EVERY OTHER GUY will do. Spike her curiosity and get her to actually want to figure out who you are before you tell her that.

By the way, if you want to read more examples of REAL text conversations and learn the proper mindset to attract women with your text messages, there is a LOT more where this came from in The TXT Book.

Hi my name is Carly i live in Kansas so here is my first kiss story! Ok! so theres this dude his name is tyler he goes to my church...he is sooooooooooooo hot and like outgoing but ive never actually talked to him or anything cause i never know what to say. So i always thought he was like 15 which is like kinda old for me but whatever.... so like one day i was at church and he walks by me and sorta smiles at me so i smile back.

After the service i am by the water fountain in the entrance of the church and there is no one there cause its like 30 minutes after the service and everyone left so im sitting there waiting for my mom to get out of the bathroom alll alone so then i see Tyler walking alone toward me.So then i start totally freaking out cause i have no earthly idea why he is freakin walking to me so i just try to stay calm and all so he comes and sits RIGHT next to me and is like hi im tyler and he smiles so im like hey im carly how old r u and he is like 13 and im totally freaking out cause im 13 too....so then he gets quiet and is like can i tell u somethin.....and im like sure.....so he is like ok well this may seem weird but i like u...alot..i think we r meant to be together.....

Then he gets down on one knee and is like will you go out with me ( i know hard to believe but its soooo true!) so im like um sure......so then i like spill the beans and im like well ive loved you for about 2 years now..so then he starts like freaking out in a good way and is like.......can i kiss you? So im like OMGGGGGGGOSHH! totally! so he like grabbed my hands and BAM! there we go...he said he loved it...i loved it more way more......so now we have been dating for about 8 months and cant be more happier :) - Carly, Kansas

The Pick Up- Just follow

Just follow these three guidelines of an effective first text:

It needs to set a fun, playful tone (so that proper text message flirting can ensue)
It needs to engage her emotions (so that she becomes even more interested)
It needs to compel her to respond (so that she will text you back every time!)

if you ever wonder why she didn’t text you back, it’s probably because you didn’t follow these three rules.
When Should You Text Her After You Get Her Number?

“How soon should I text her” is one of the most common questions that guys have about this stuff.

Instead of waiting three days, one day, whatever — just text her as soon as you get her number. And if you’re hanging out with your friends in a cool place, you don’t have to stop everything — just text her the next morning after you meet her.

She was ma 1st gf..n i..her 1st bf. v both r of 16. a day i din't informd ma parents dat m going to meet her, cuz they were nt knowing about us(they a bit dint liked her.) wel..it was raining. she was at 1 of our frnd'z place. i went there too, other frnds were there too. n they all r vry nice, they left us alone. v were having some realy sweet sweet talks...but then only..

all got messd up..ma cel phone rang and mom cald me home..dis was nt enough so she got upset..n ran upstairs. i walkd behind her..n it was raining so she dint go to the terris, i stud in front of her. she said..'u go,y r u standin hear? n stay away i'll nt talk to u..u go'.. then i got closer...she said the same to stay away..thn i movd more closer..n this repeated untill our faces were just few inches away n i took ma hands around her waist. then she turnd her face to left n i kissd her right cheek..n i askd..is all ok nw..she said no..n turnd her face to right n i kissd her left cheek..then she smiled i litle n looked into ma eyes with loads of love..n draged her hand in ma hairs..n v closd our eyes leeeend towardz each other..n.......all silent for few seconds..
i felt like m made of fire..ma eye balls were burning with pleasure..n ma lips were like a factory of energy.. felt
gr8..lovely.. - neo, 16, NY

Okay so i was hangin out wit my boyfriend cameron n he was skateboardin. I'm not really into the whole skateboarding thing but i was there for him :) Anyway so i was textin my friend Linsie when Cameron rode up 2 me on his skateboard n kissed me!! It caught me off guard but it was absolutely wonderful! He later took me out 2 the pavilion out back n the sun was setting it was SOO romantic n he kissed me again! He tried 2 french me but i jerked back cuz i was nervous n we both started laughin n he goes "lets try this again." so we kissed again without the tounge n it was ahmazing!! - Anonymous, B*ville, Arkansas, 14

How To Flirt over Text Messages

How To Flirt over Text Messages

It’s important when you’re learning how to text girls that you steer clear of the normal, “boring” text messages. If you’re texting a very beautiful girl, she is probably ALREADY getting texts from normal, needy guys, so we have to stand out.

So… what SHOULD you text her?
Text her something fun, flirty, and playful.

One great way to make your texts stand out is to use a nickname.
Here’s an example of a BAD first text message:
“Hey, how is your day going?”
Yuck! If you send this text the day after you meet a girl, you will almost certainly end up in the “lame/boring” category in her mind.

Here’s an example of how to fix that last text… This is an example of a GOOD text message:

“hey crackerpants! Just what kinda trouble are you getting into today!?”
Why does this text work so much better? How can you learn to text every girl something effective like these messages?

Here how it goes...
I always dreamed of my perfect first kiss. We would sit in the park and he would kiss me like no one did before. But I knew that the reality was different.
I liked this boy for about two weeks. We hung out every day, but at that time he had a girlfriend. So all I could do is wait for him to break up with her or to find someone else. But his girlfriend was from another town and he could only see her during the holidays. Soon he broke up with her because he wanted to be with me. And that night he kissed me.

It wasn't a long kiss, just a short kiss on my lips for "saying goodbye". I was so happy, and next evening I had my first French kiss with him. It was amazing!!! I was a bit nervous, well actually very nervous because i never kissed any boy before. It was the most beautiful feeling I have ever felt. I want to say: if any girl is scared of her first kiss, don't be, I was scared and now I know that it was stupid. Just relax:) - 14, Serbia


So I'm 17 years old, and until today, I'd never kissed a girl before. So today, it was lunch time at school, and I was hanging out with my friend, who I'd known for about a year. We were laughing and talking and dancing and generally carrying on. We had hugged a couple of times that day, and as we dipped (dance move where she leans down over my arm), the 5-minute bell rang to warn us to get to class.

We started to walk together, but I suddenly remembered I'd left my backpack in the lunch room. We went back to get it (I had to ask her to come with me) and a janitor helped us find it (they had moved it to the front of the commons). She was about to go to gym class, and I to a psych class, so I was about to say good-bye for that day. But then she turned to me and said, "Come here." She opened her arms wide for a hug, and I recieved her, but then she pulled me into a kiss. It lasted about 5 seconds, and felt really good.

When we pulled apart, I asked her loudly, "Why did you just kiss me?!" I was taken completely off guard. She asked me flirtingly, "Why do you think?" Bemused and stunned, I said "I don't know," as in I didn't have the foggiest. She answered "When a girl kisses a guy, what do you think she's asking?" I finally got it. "Are you asking me out?" She smiled, nodded, and muttered sarcastically, yet sincerely, "Yes." - anonymous, 17

The Pick Up- Sending the first text

Sending the first text can be a nerve wracking experience for many guys. Often spending hours of thought and deliberation trying to formulate the perfect choice of words to kick off their new text romance. After all that time and thought the results are usually something brilliant like:

“Hey what’s up?”

“Hey cutie, it was nice meeting you last night. Want to hang out tonight?”

“How is your day going?”

“What are you up to?”

“Do you remember me? – {your name}”

“Hey it’s {name} from the bar/party/club last night. What’s up?”

These types of text or typical, boring and she is likely to have received the exact same text from countless other guys who may be pursuing her. Instead of making yourself distinctive you have put yourself in the same mundane/uninteresting category as every other guy.

On top of failing to produce any positive emotional reactions in her they also destroy any of the initial attraction that you built up when she first gave you her number.

My first kiss was with my boyfriend of several months. I had been wanting him to kiss me for a while, but he didn't want to move to fast. One night I was at his house watching a movie with him and some of his friends. They ended up all going home and we were left alone. In the middle of the movie a massive thunderstorm had started, and it was still raining at this point.

I love thunderstorms and we went out on his deck to watch it. We were talking when all of the sudden he stopped and was just looking into my eyes. I knew at this point what he was thinking, neither of us had to say anything. We were both pretty wet, but we finally kissed for maybe 5 seconds, it was absolutely perfect! We stayed out in the rain for a while talking, and then went back inside to watch tv; we kissed again before I left that night. - anonymous, 16, Iowa

Contrary to most first kiss stories, my first kiss was neither memorable nor amazing. It happened during my 6th grade year, however old that would have made me, and it was simply awkward. What else could be expected from such an age? I didn't love the guy, but ironically I'm currently seeing him [An entire six years later]. The story goes that we had been "going out" for a couple of months when we both attended a friend's birthday party.

And what game other than Spin the Bottle would be played at a 6th grade party? Of course the bottle mysteriously only landed on him when I spun it, go figure. It was a very awkward peck on the lips. Of course later during our three-year relationship we moved on to more intensive making out, but trust me on this, kissing only gets better as you get older and more experienced. We both enjoy it much more now ;) - Violet, 18, Georgia

The Pick Up ...!

There are three essential elements that go into your first text message to make it set you apart and make her eager to text you back. Here are the components that every first text message needs to make it effective:

1. It needs to set a fun, playful tone for future interactions

2. It needs to engage her emotions, causing her to re-affirm her attraction to you

3. It needs to compel her to respond

If all these things can be accomplished in your first text you are practically guaranteed a positive response. She will also be much more enthusiastic about moving forward with you.

Next we explore how each element works & how to include them in your first text.

My first kiss was on a field trip! Me and my bf went on a field trip to the capital and we were going to go to the top! I hate heights so i was freaking out! So we were climbing up the stairs and he was in front of me! And i saw his gr8 butt. Then when we stopped for a break he let me go in front of him and so i was getting really nervous and dizzy and we r finally at the top! I stay closest to the building as i walk around he i tell him that i dont feel very good and so he holds on to me.

And right as the teacher comes i pass out. So my bf says ill take her inside and so him and his friend bring me inside and gets me water.

I was laying down with my head on his lap and i wake up freaking out saying where am i and i wouldnt stop saying that and so he calms me down while everybody else is still outside looking at the river. he tells me where we r and he says that i passed out and that he knows something that can make me feel better. im still laying down. and he kisses me! I was so happy and feeling much better! It was like a spiderman kiss upside down. i was sooooo happy! - Ashley, 14, MO

My first kiss was a surprise. Me and this guy on my bus was a bad boy and i loved that about him. One day i get on the bus and sit with as usual and he says want to play Principal and student and i said sure! well he was saying stuff like can i see u in my office. U have a dentention.etc. so finally were at the school and the bell rings and he leans over and says u have been very naughty and i turn to him and he kisses me. I was in heaven.i have liked him 4 so long and finally he kisses me! but we never went out b/c he was tooo old for me! I was 12 and he was 17! - anonymous

The secret is to make...

An example of a fun statement that requires addition information would be: “I just figured out what you would be if you were an animal.”
If she wants to know the answer she has to text you back. The secret is to make the statement about her personally. Nothing makes a person more curious than what someone else thinks about them.

Getting a girl you are interested in to respond to your first text uses the same method you would use to get anyone to respond, by asking a question or making a statement that calls for more information.

Though this may sound easy, it requires some thought to put into practice. Not any statement or question will do, otherwise “Hey what’s up?” would be an ideal first message.

Take a basic and reword it so it becomes fun & playful.
Example:
“What’s up?” becomes “What kind of mischief are you causing today?”

Ok so im dating this guy. weve been dating for like a month now.....last night i was over at his house for a party because a friend of ours is moving away and his mom had thrown a party. so we were in his room and everyone had left it was completely dark and the only light was coming through the window above his bed which we were sitting on together quite close together i might add and he said to me do you like me a lot? and i said well yeah other wise i dont think we would be dating right now...now would we? and he said no i guess not huh?

And we both laughed and then the most amazing thing happened.............he leaned in and kissed me.............it wasnt much not like a makeout session cuz we didnt want his mom to walk in or anything but it was amazing i loved it and later he told me that he was really happy and couldnt wait till camp where we would be together everyday for a month...yay!!!!..........so yeah - anonymous, 13, Florida

Well, i have this boyfriend who i thought was really sexy and hot. :] which he was, he wanted to kiss me but i could, because i was so shy. i didnt know what or even how to kiss him. he kept on asking me why i didnt want to kiss him and wanted a reason, so i told him ''i dont know who to kiss'' he was like ''its ok, it doesnt mater if you dont know how to, because you can learn.'' so he leaned in and kissed me. then i tried and he was like '' see your doing it. you learned quick, and you said you cant kiss'' soo we kissed more and more and practically made out, a second away from sex. and i couldnt believe i'd done it. but i did, and im happy now. becuase i cant believe i waited so long to kiss him, because he kisses very qood ! :] - anonymous

You may be....

You may be texting/calling her too much if:

• Her response time is consistently slow
• She doesn’t engage you in conversation or latch onto your hooks
• She consistently gives you one-word/super short replies (‘okay’, ‘sure’, ‘yep’, etc.)
She doesn’t initiate text/phone calls.
You’re texting/calling her just enough if:
• She initiates text/phone calls
• She responds to text/phone calls quickly
• She readily engages you in conversation and latches onto your hooks
• She answers your questions
She propels the interaction forward by asking questions of her own.
By keeping these in mind you can keep yourself in check and be aware if you are texting or calling to often. If she seems to stop losing interest take a break from contacting her for a few days, then, try using the principles from the When She Stops Responding – The Re-engaging Text section, or get in touch with her via Facebook using the principles from Using Social Media.

Over the course of the next couple weeks send the occasional text message, if you don’t get a favorable response, it’s time to cut your losses and move on.

My first kiss was a couple of hours ago. It was an end of school party, and we were playing spin the bottle and i got chosen with this guy. But i dont count that as my first kiss because an hour after that, i had the best kiss of my life. My friend was having issues with his girlfriend because she was cheating on him, and he couldn't bring himself to break up with her. I was hugging him partly because of that, and partly because i was afraid i wasn't gonna see him for the rest of the summer. Well, he didn't leave until a couple of hours later :).

I'm not sure how, but we just ended up kissing and i get butterflies whenever i think about it. He was so sweet. It was on the grass at a winery (the girl who had the partys dad owned one) and the sun was just about 2 set. I get chills just thinking about it. - Leb, 12, New York


My first kiss was absolutely amazing. It happened about five days ago. We have been together for about two and a half months, but we are completly in love with eachother. The kiss happened after our eighth grade graduation ceremony. We were both very sad about leaving eachother for summer, and we wanted to have a nice long hug, but we had friends, family, and teachers everywhere. So, we went behind a wall, and we started to hug like we normally do to say goodbye, but it lasted a very long time because we never wanted to leave eachother.

I heard him whisper into my ear, "I love you," and i whispered it back. I felt him kiss my hair, and i lifted up my head to kiss his cheek. Then we both just matched our lips to eachothers. It was so passionate and romantic. I slowly felt his tongue on my lips, and the kiss reached a new level. It all stayed sweet and romantic. He brought his hands up into my hair and then he pulled me into his body tighter. It was the best feeling I've ever had,and I'm so happy it happened with him. - Anonymous, Arizona, 13

Contact is

One of the biggest mistakes you can make with a new woman is texting or calling her too much. Her not responding immediately to your messages or answering every call is not an invitation to text or call her again.

By being overly persistent in your communications with her you portray yourself to be needy and desperate which is the easiest way to kill attraction.

How do you know what the right amount of contact is?

My boyfriend, jordan, & I have been together for 2 months & a bit. & he is soooo hot. we had done a lot of little not to important pecks. & just after the one month mark, jordan & I were downtown together & sitting in the emptied park outside theatre, where it was slightly dark & the sun was setting. & I had been teasing him & so he went down to sit on one of the steps & after a bit I followed. I went up to him & kneeled on the below step so I was just at his height, he said he loved me then leant in & we hooked up for about 10 seconds & then his mum called him! so it was a romantic, cute & funny kiss. - Helena, 14, Australia

Me and my boyfried had been dating for about a month (now over seven months) and neither of us had ever had a first kiss. We were in his living room, his parents downstairs as their living room is upstairs, and listening to music. We were sitting on the floor and both exhausted after taking a small hike/walk to an abandoned house we always seem to find money in. He laid down on the florr and i layed down next to him. He had just turned his iPod onto shuffle mode and teh music played in the background as we laid there.

Chasing cars came on by snowpatrol and me and my boyfriend scooted closer to each other. He said you have no idea...and i said i have no idea? what? and he said yeah no idea..and i gently asked him if i could have an idea, he whispered..it depends if u want to or not...i said i did..and he asked when..i said now...and with teh chorus still playin gin teh background he bent over me and gently kissed me....teh best he knew how... it seems as if it shouldnt really br our first kiss story...like those kinds of kisses only happen in movies..but it was ours. - Lexi, 15, Hawaii

Some tips..

Some tips.

1. Keep it C&F, if you played this way the first time you met her, you'd surely want to keep gaming her the same way.
2. Use inside jokes from the first time you met. Something like: "Oh and do you remember when you almost dropped your glass when you saw me? - "Haha Liar, that never happened" -"God, how much had you drunk that night? You forgot that, it was pretty funny."
3. Depending on your goals with the girl, direct the convo the way you want. IF you want to know her more, to make her your girl, you can ask about things she likes, ask her opinion about something, and tease her while doing it. The convo topic vary if you only want to have sex with her, make out again, game her normally.
4. Have fun, the most important part is that BOTH of you have fun on Day2, be sure to do or ask anything you want, have fun, enjoy the time together.

Hope this helps!

Ok. so my first kiss happened at a school dance in 8th grade. I was dating this guy who was really cuite. and everyone knew that he was going to kiss me at the dance. I didn't know though. So, Jake and i were slow dancing. and then we looked into eachother's eyes, he pulled me in tighter and kissed me. it lasted about 4 seconds, i'm not even kidding. It was so romantic. and then after the dance, he was walking me out of the building, and suddenly he jerked me back and he pulled me down the hall and into a room and he kissed me agein and took my face in his handsand it just all started from there and we made out. it was so romantic. - Miranda, 14, Ohio

Hey ..my first kiss was like un like any1 elses well I had ben going out for this boy and I invited him over to my house a bit and we stayd a wile and talk then took a walk around my neighboorhood so it was time for him to leav it was like 7 pm and my freind came running dwn the street saying dija kiss em !!?? I was like "no" (sadly) and I leand against my car and I said man! I wish he wud cum bak and kiss me like in the muvies (soooo) my stupid friend ran aftr him*by the way he walkd to my house lol* so she ran aftr him and said "hey! Cum bak to her house she wants u to kiss her!" so by then I was hiding in my house! So the door rang it was him and said "was it true?u wanna kiss me"? I was like "ppshhh nnooo" so he was likeook and he hugged me by again and we huggd 4 a while then our eyes met and he kissed me I felt like I was gunn a melt it was so awsome!!! - Ashley, FL

My first kiss was on Friday the 13th.. it was June 13, 2008. We had been dating for almost 6 months, doing the basics, holding hands, hugging, ect. The thing is, is that his dad doesnt want him having anything to do with me outside of school. We go to a private school, so our classes are very small. every friday our class gets together and goes to the movies or goes skating.

Last friday, we were at the movies watching the Incredible Hulk. we had been holding hands the whole movie and i had my head on his shoulder. in the end of the movie (right after the hulk won), i took my head off his shoulder, he looked over at me and asked if i was okay, and i just kissed him. it lasted for a good while, and it was the greatest feeling ever. after the kiss i just layed my head back on his shoulder and finished the movie. after the movie was over, i gave him a huge hug. And who says friday the 13th is an unlucky day... =] - anonymous, 14, OHIO


This wasn't my first kiss, but it was first one with an actual bf. So i was at the park with 3 of my friends messing around then they decided to call my bf and invite him to the park. It was national make out day or so we thought because of some stupid txt FWD thingie. My bf came they like left us alone and stuff but i was extremely nervous and could not bring myself to make out! At about 9:45 I had to leave to ride my bike home. Before i left I was like "don't i get a kiss goodbye" and me and my bf kissed innocently for like a milisecond. It was sweet and innocent and I can't wait unti l"m ready to make out. - anonymous

Effective way to communicate

Another effective way to communicate emotion and tone is through emoticons. You can spell them out in parenthesis, i.e. :) becomes (smiley face). Any variation of these can be used. By using them your can portray feelings of playfulness & sympathy, or simply let her know that you are in a good mood. Even an overly cocky statement can seem less so when using emoticons.
Until you begin to form a solid emotional connection with her the lighthearted and fun aspects of your personality should constantly be on display.

Your text conversations must keep with the easy going and laid back theme that you have already established.

Hi, I'm Frances and I live in the North-East of England. My first kiss was on June 22nd- when I was exactly 12 2/3. it was about ten past midnight and me and my friends were on a Scout Camp. We were playing spin the bottle (obviously!) with two boys and to make it better. We played it in stages... hug, kiss on the cheek, kiss on the other cheek (of the other person- to make it different), kiss on the lips, hug and kiss on the lips, snog for 10 seconds, snog for 20 seconds. The bottle kept landing on me and this guy so we ended up just about to snog! It was ok though because a) I just thought it was a kiss on the lips but for longer b)

I knew him and we were really good friends So my friends turned off the light in the tent and he came towards me- I put my arms around him because it seemed the natural thing to do and he stuck his tounge in my mouth!!!! Then they turned on the light again. I was in shock so I reeled back and wiped my mouth... I think I may have shouted that it tasted of fish! But they all said that it wasn't 10 seconds so we had to do it again! Then the light came back on and I just hid behind my friends back for a while! So, there you have it! The glamourous story of my first kiss. - Frances, 12, England

Hi, my name is Thomi Rose. I've had a few boyfriends but never kissed any of the except the last two. My first kiss isn't what I consider it to be. My ex kissed me and it shocked me. After than we never really kissed. But what i would consder to be my first kiss was truly extraordinary!(two first kisses for two types) I had just started dating Cody(October 19,2006) after knowing him less than a month. About 10days after declaring we were together (October 29, 2006), we were standing in my front yard waiting for his mom to pick him up. We were having a deep conversation about broken trust and how i have a hard time trusting guys because of a past relationship. But that's not the only thing i was thinking about.

I wanted him to kiss me but i was too shy to do or say anything about it. And i just loved the way he was looking at me.His mom pulled up so he had to leave, but before he got in the van, he asked:can i kiss you? i said yes because something in my mind and heart told me i could let my guard down and let him know me. it was gentle and sweet. It lasted only about 3 seconds but it sent chills down my back. then he said bye and gave me another quick kiss. My second 'first kiss' from him was April 24, 2007. It was the first day that I told him that I truly honestly loved him. He had been waiting to hear that for so long. It was after school one day and he walked me to my car before he had to go to football practice.

I was telling him bye and him to me when he just went for it. it caught me off guard but i had been wanting him to do it for a while. When he pulled away after about 5seconds i smiled at him and told him that i loved him. He gave me a big smile and hugged me. He had been waiting to hear those 3 words for so long because he had said he loved me since we had been together. We are still together after 1yr and 8months and happy! && his kisses are still AmaZINg!!!* We plan to get married a few years from now ...which isn't soon enough for me, but when it happens it will be AMAZING!! - Thomi Rose, 18 yrs, California

Messaging

Forget everything you’ve heard about 3-day or any other kind of rules about how long you should wait to make first contact.

The longer you wait, the larger the opportunity for the memory of her attraction to you to fade and larger the chance or her meeting someone else. Strike while the iron is hot.

You should be sending your first text message within hours of getting her number or at the very most the next day.

There is nothing to be gained from setting a serious tone when texting a girl you’ve just met. If possible, conversations of a serious nature should be done in person or at the very least, during a live phone conversation and definitely only after you have already built a connection with her.

Misinterpreting feelings and tone is far too easy when text messaging.

So i was madly in love with this boy named kyle. i was hanging out with a few mates in town and he came up to me... and said " hey, theres some bands playing in town tonight, wanna come? " and i look at my friends and said " uhh, sure ! " he hugs everyone, all the time so he gave me a hug. ( he gives the best hugs ever ♥ ) and walked off. later that night, me and my friends where standing outside talking and kyle comes up to me and casually said " hey " he hugged me from behind and whisperd " your gorgeous " i blushed, turned around and said thanks. my friends giggled and went inside, and left me and george alone.

He then said, lets go inside and he took my hand and walked me inside. later on im the night me and my friends decided to go get some dinner and then crash at my house, it started raining about 20mins before we left, i was standing outside cold and wet and he came over to me, hugged me and made me all warm and then without looking for saying anything to me he kissed me, it was soo perfect and sweet. i would never imagine my first kiss being in the rain. btw, he was 13, i was 12. (: - Jaz, 13 Years, New Zealand.

My 1st kiss was with a boy who wasn't very mature(considering the fact he was a whole year & a few months younger than me{with me being n 7th grade @ the time and him n 6th}) but he was nice. But anyways we had jus started going out dat day but it wasn't like I was being fast with the realtionship because we had known eachother 4 a year and a half and we would always flirt and talk it was spirit week and we were having a basketball/volleyball tournament and I told my bff that I was starting 2 like him n he still liked me so we started going out and he wanted 2 walk me 2 my grandmas house after skool so I let him it was only a few blocks.

So we were walking and talking and he said "Can I hav a kiss?" and I said "IDK" so then I saw my lil cousins walking 4rm the store and I couldn't kiss him then cuz they saw me. But then I told him I can't kiss him but I could giv him a hug and he looked disappointed. So then I gave him a hug and he looked me n the eyes and gave me a sweet peck on the lips. IT WAS SO GOOD I COULDN'T EVEN SAY ANYTHING I JUS WALKED AWAY
NOT SAYING A WORD OR SHOWING ANY EXPRESSION! We stayed 2gether 4 a few weeks then I dropped him. We don't talk anymore. - Marissa, Portland, OR

The important....

This attribute is one of the most valuable and yet difficult to learn. If your life was already full of amazing & beautiful woman one failed interaction wouldn’t faze you.
Also, it is one of the key reasons that 10% of men are getting 90% of the girls. Being willing to walk away if she doesn’t fulfill your expectations and coming across as non-needy is fundamental to your success with women.
The important thing is to learn from it, and then you can move on. The world is a place of endless opportunities and it is time that you saw it this way. Each day you encounter a huge amount of women, many of these women are more than likely attracted to you. It’s time you adopt an abundance mentality.

My first kiss happened durring the summer after 8th grade. It was with a new kid at school (now a long-time friend and ex-boyfriend). We both lived in Laguna Beach and as you know it's a pretty small town so we both lived by each other. Coincidentally we both lived right by the water and decided to go surfing. Jake had met up with me at the usual un-touristy spot and we had gone surfing (duh) for about a half an hour. We decided to take a break and we both headed back to our spot at the beach. It was around sunset and he had stripped off his surf gear (and by the way he was so hot even back then). Then he just looked at me like he had never looked at me before and said, "I really like you."

"I really like you too," I replied. Then, he leaned in and kissed me. It felt like it lasted forever. We kept on kissing and eventually made out. At the end of the day he asked if we could go out and we did. We went out for a few months but eventually we moved on. Now we're super good friends. - Allyson, 16, Laguna Beach, CA


Hi, my name is Billierae and I have a first kiss story! My first kiss happened a couple of days ago, and it was sooo amazing!! It happened like 2 days before my birthday, and it was the best birthday present I've ever gotten!

I was visiting my girlfriend (I'm a lesbian), who I met over the internet, and me and her had been dating for almost 2 months online before I finally got to go to her state to meet her. So, I was staying at this hotel near where she lives, and me and her were wandering around the hallways of the hotel, trying to find my room so we could get our swimsuits. Well, I had forgotten my room number, so neither of us had much of an idea of where we were going. But it was still so much fun, running around these hotel hallways with her. Every so often we would hug, or say

"I love you" or something, and then eventually, we got to this hallway that was totally empty except for us, and so she pulled me towards her and we kissed on the lips. It only lasted about three seconds, but it was still so amazing and I'll never forget it! - Billierae, 12, Ohio


So my first kiss was soooooo amazingly romantic with one of the hottest guys ever! allright so i was at my friends house and also with my friend other friend and there was this text messege going around about like if you forward it you'll get a suprise in 15 min and like i had to leave my friends house and so his mom was giving me and the other guy a ride home.

And i've liked this guy for the longest time but were not going out. and when we were sitting next to eachother in the car he texted me and said neither of us got the suprise yet. and i texted back "i know. :[" and he texted "its not too late..." and i look at him and asked what it ment and he's like this and he gently pulled my chin towards his lips and kissed me! and it was like total sunset and
"i luv your girl" was playing on the radio. and after he kissed me for about 5 seconds. he was like "was that a good suprise" and i smiled and said "DEFINITLY!" and we both started laughing. and now me and him are sooo close to going out. but we've been out of town latlyy. but it was sooo romantic. and a moment ill rember forever! - rylee , IL

Effective First Text Messages & Non-verbal cues

Non-verbal cues such as body language, vocal tonality, facial expressions, etc. are the strongest factors of in-person communication. That being said, it is important to use emoticons, acronyms and initialisms to set the mood you are trying to communicate.

So you’ve got her number. Well done. But now are you wondering what you should text her?
Lots of guys will spend hours thinking about sending the first text, wracking their brains for the “perfect” thing to send her…
and then the best they come up with is “hey, what’s up?”
We’ve got a better way to start off the conversation.

My first kiss was amazing and I will never forget it. I was in Minnesota visiting my cousins and I found out that my cousin Grace, who is 15, had this 14 year old friend named Zach who was apparently really hot. Well, we (me, Grace, my 13 year old cousin Nina, and my 14 year old cousin Madison) took a bike ride over to his house and talked. (By the way- he was really hot!

I mean great abs!) He later called my cousin and told her he thought I was hot and that he wanted to see me again.We told him I was only 12 and he was like "That's OK". So, we took another bike ride to his house. The next day, he left for camp for a week. The day he came back, my cousin Madison (who lives in Colorado) reminded us that she never kissed a guy in Minnesota (She wanted to be able to tell her friends that she kissed someone in MN.

It wouldn't have been her first kiss or anything.)So, Grace said she'd call Zach (since he is her only guy-friend within biking distance). Then, Grace asked me if I wanted to kiss him too and I reminded her that I'd never kissed anyone before. She told me that it was OK- he wouldn't care. So, since I did kind of like Zach I said yes. He agreed to kiss both of us, and so we went on a bike ride over to his house. Well, all of us except Madison. She had gotten in trouble that day and couldn't go. Grace asked me if I stilled wanted to do it and I said yes. When we got to his house, he was like "Where's Madison" and we told him. He was like "oh well. Rachel's the one I really wanted to kiss anyway.

I walked over to him and he leaned in and kissed me. I was just 2 seconds, but that's OK with me. It was really romantic too, despite the fact that my cousins Grace and Nina were watching us. Oh, and just as I got back on my bike, it started raining! We had to ride all the way back with a thunderstorm going on but I barely noticed because I was so happy!!!!! - Rachel, 12, VA


I've heard from many people and books that 12 is the best age to get your first kiss. I really don't know why that is, but I got mine when I was 12, and it was amazing!

I was at a New Year's party with my former boyfriend, this was over Christmas break so I didn't see my boyfriend for over a week and I missed him terribly. He came later into the party and when he came, we hugged for a long time on the couch saying how much we missed each other. A girl I met there became really good friends with me and we talked the whole time, basically. She kept saying how me and my boyfriend should kiss when the ball came down at midnight. I was really nervous about it!! So it was midnight and everyone yelled, "Happy New Year!" I hugged my boyfriend and my friend said, "You didn't kiss!!!"

I looked at my boyfriend, but my friend pushed my head into his and I got a gash on my forehead. XDD She said, "Fine I'll leave you two alone." I looked at him again, and he sorta nodded. The next thing I knew, I leaned in and gave him a wimpy kiss. It lasted a millisecond, but during that millisecond, there were crazy fireworks that went off, boom boom boom! I'll never forget Jan. 1, 2008- Even if we are broken up now. - Nicole, 13, Pennsylvania

Learn Secrets Most Men

The purpose of texting her in the first place is to get her to meet up with you. But where and what should you do? How do you keep her interested and chasing now that you're finally going to be face-to-face? More importantly, what’s your plan to take things to the next level when the date goes well?

Hey, my first kiss was with this girl, we'd both liked each other for a while but never did anything about it. She came over to hang out one night,when i dropped her off at home, she said yes and we kissed. we're now going out. - anonymous, 15, PA

My first kiss was when I went on holiday to Bodrum Turkey last week. I was in the pool when this really hot guy sat down almost next to me, Then he jumped into the pool so I got in the pool and he said something to me but he was German so I couldn't understand him,
The next day he was on the same boat trip we were on and he was helping out by serving drinks and he smiled at me, On the second last night I was sad that I didn't speak to him and he was sitting at the table next to me in the restaurant so to stop myself crying I went and stood on the beach, Minutes later he came onto the beach and came up to me, He smiled but obviously understood I didn't speak German so he grabbed my face pulled it towards his and kissed me, He was so gentle and it lasted for about 20 seconds!

After that we just sat and looked at each other, on the night I was leaving he didn't turn up to eat with his family so that made me sad but at least the memories will last - Lanie, 13, Los Angeles


I find my first kiss story cute. Its not completely the way i pictured it, but it was still cute... It just happened like last week. Me and rechad had been going out for exactly 3 weeks. We were at band camp (im a majorette and he's a drummer), and we were both really tired because we were outside all day on the football feild. We were both in this closet (its more like a storage room, but anyways), its really small. He was putting away his drum and i was putting away some flags. When we were both done putting stuff away we hugged. It was like a really long hug...it lasted like 2 minutes, no lie. when we pulled away from the hug we were holdin hands and jus lookin into each others eyes...rite then he leaned in for a kiss. It was like just a regular kiss and then i felt his tongue rub against my lips. We were like making out until his mom called him bc she was waitin for him outside. Now we kiss like all the time. - anonymous, 13, Pa

Im 15 years old and i just got my first kiss today. august4th2008. me and my boyfriend dated for about a month but started going out for exactly a week today. he was talking about how he really wanted to kiss me for a while now and i was like okay well when you next see me i guess. and today was the first time we'd seen achother since he asked me out. so me and my boyfriend and my best friend and her boyfriend were walking in hr neighborhood all th way up to her house.onc we got to her house we stayed on her front porch for like an hour all 4 of us juss talking.

And him were cuddling and stuff. he had to go to football practice and asked me if i could walk him and his brother to the field they met us at. so me and him walked to the field. right before he left he gave me a tight hug and said i dont wanna let go and then he looked at me and gave me a soft goodbye kiss on the lips. it was the cutest thing ever and i will never forget it :D - agustina, georgia

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Okay so when i was 13 i had my 1st kiss with this 15 year old guy named bobby. he was soooo cute! anyways it was in july of 2006. A friend of mine asked me to go to the lake with her, so i did, and i guess the real reason she asked me to go was becuse bobby wanted to meet me. he saw a picture of me and thought i was pretty cute. bobby brought along one of his friends... anyways....

We all hung out at the lake like all day! when the sun started going down we decided to leave, so jenna brought all the stuff back up to her moms car, and when i was about to leave he was al like hey wait, so i walked back to him and he took my face in both hands and VERY gently pulled my face to his! it was absolutly adorable. We never did kiss again, but i will always remember that. it was sooooooooo cute! - Sara, 15, Idaho

This story doesn't exactly have a happy ending. My life is very different from others, I was born in Toronto, Canada. But I've been living in Hong Kong for about 9 years. Just 2 years ago I moved to Canada. I'm still not very used to the different customs and stuff here. I really enjoyed my life in Hong Kong, but my parents wanted me to study here. So I moved. My life in Hong Kong was basically perfect, I've been there from kindergarten to Gr.6 .

My favourite years were Gr.5 and Gr.6. I always had a blast in that class. 6A. Never ever will I forget my awesome class. I had my best friends: Heidi, Carry, Angel, Nathan, Alan, Andy and many may more. Nathan was my crush, and I was his. We both knew we liked each other, but we were both very shy. So we never said anything to each other. As time went by, neither of us made a move. But there was one time where he was going to make his move: We all went to play volleyball in the park. And I had to leave early because i had swim practice after. So I told them I had to leave and I said my round of Byes. Just when I was about to leave, I saw my old friend Ann Marie. So I talked to her for awhile and she said she'll walk with me.

So I did. The next day at school, my friend Angel comes and tells me that if Ann Marie didn't walk with me, Nathan would've walked me home. At that moment I felt so much regret, and I just wanted to go back in time. Until the day that I had to leave for Toronto was here, and I never got to show Nathan that I do really like him. And so badly did I want to tell my parents that I wanted to stay, (Did I tell you guys he was going to the same high school as me just so it's the same one as me??HOW SWEET!!)

But i didn't know how to tell them, so I just left Hong Kong forever like that....This day right now at this moment Sunday, September 21st 2008 I have decided that in 2009 Summer, I'm going back to Hong Kong for a visit for my Buds. Nathan is in England right now, but he is also going to visit Hong Kong in the summer. So I am hopefully going to show him ny feelings for him. 2009 SUMMER BABY!!!
P.S. I LOVE YOU NATHAN, FOREVER & EVER<3 - Janet, Toronto, Canada

The tradition of kissing

The tradition of kissing underneath the mistletoe has been around for millennia. However, our modern day version has its roots in the more puritanical Victorian era, where we all had to be prim and proper. The one time a year that you could expect a kiss from a suitor was at this time under the mistletoe. And as tradition goes, the two are obliged to kiss and having kissed the gentleman takes a berry from the twig. Once all the berries are gone, all the opportunity has left with it. No berries, no kisses.

My first and best kiss ever was one nite @ my friends house. i was having a sleepover w/her, and her brother (the guy i like since 4ev) was having one w/his friend. we all stayed up l8 watching movies and playing xbox. me + my friends brother stayed up latest and afterwards, we went and laid on top of our sleeping bags. he kissed me + it was so sweet and exciting. this happened on friday july 13th 2008. - ashley, 13, Minnesota

My first kiss wasn't like anything I had ever dreamed of. I mean sure...when I think kiss I think romance fireworks everywhere.

But I had no idea it would feel this good. Ok so, I had a boyfriend who's name I am restricting but he was HOT. I am talking serious torso and everything. Not that I care because I am not one of those shallow girls who just look for looks...not that its bad to be good looking. ANYWAYS. We were at this park and all my friends were there and all his were there...including my ex. He was moving to dallas the next month so we both knew we had to kiss eventually. When we were alone a.k.a
my friends on the OTHER side of the park but us being still in plain view he simply asked "so...is it ok if I kiss you now?" I laughed and said "sure thing." I didn't actually think that it was going to happen but when it did wow. At first he just kissed me, no tounges at all but then we got more passionate and I felt his tounge on my lips so i naturally opened my mouth. Meanwhile my friends were spazzing and screaming. We took a break and hugged instead and then we were at it again. When we finished, he picked up my hand and kissed it and whispered I love you. He's moved but I still miss him a lot :) - anonymous, 13, New York


Well , me and my friends , phoebe jack and gabe , were going camping , for the weekend , and it was gonna take 4 hours to get there , we were so bored , we started to play dares in the back of the car....It turned into , KISSING !! but , i hadnt kissed Anyone before , and was feeling wierd ....Then it was my turn , i had to kiss gabe so , he leaned over , and wispered , dont worry im nervous too, then Phoebe said : Go ! we had to kiss with toungue !

When it started i was feeling wierd , but after a while i got used to it Then , when we got there GABE asked me out ! i had a the BIGGEST CRUSH ever on his brother osh though !! i felt wierd.....but said yes then he kept on kissing me like every moment , his brother saw , and said , GABE man , thatsnot fair ! , and wnet off with his amtes , i said to gabe , what he meen ? gabe sed , oh he was gonna sk you out lol !!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHH i was soo annoyed !!! now im going out with a boy called JOSH tho, an hes the best boyfriend EVER - anonymous, 10, London


I was 12 back then . i was in this camp in out of country with a lot of ppl from my school and some ppl from other countries. anyways. it all happened on a night while i was in the fronnt yard of a ping pong cape with luke.. we were together for like.. 2 days ago, but for it was my first kiss, i didn't wanna try it.,so after some days, he convinced me. we were laying in the grass, looking at the starts, when he put his elbow on the grass so his head would stand properly. i could see his brown eyes staring at me.

Then he started leaning and leaning..and i taught "wel..that's it.. i have to try, so i'll know what is it like" ..well..as he leaned closer, i closed my eyes. and then he kissed me...the most amazing kiss ever. at first it was mouth closed kiss, but then it turned into a french kiss. i can say i loved him for an year after that..tho we weren't together anymore..but for far as i know, until now, that's the best summer i've ever had. summer of '07. back at the ping pong back yard.. the weirdest romance story ppl from my school say they've ever seen - anonymous

Mistletoe, having the blessing of the Nordic goddess Frigg, was made a symbol of peace. And because of its unique display of greenery in the midst of winter there are numerous myths of its ability to make women fertile.

Mistletoe kissing

Mistletoe kissing was a Scandinavian tradition that when two found themselves beneath mistletoe, they should either kiss and make-up or at the very least drop all quarrel and rest their dispute until next morning.

I don’t really count my technical first kiss as a ‘real’ kiss, just because it was staged. But it’s an interesting story and it was still pretty amazing

I had been picked to play Jasmine in my school’s all-school play (which is pretty huge, especially for me because just the year before I was only in the choir). I was 12 and in 7th grade. The guy who played Aladdin was one of my good friends, Jake, who was in 8th grade.

He also happened to be my best friend’s girlfriend (yeah, I know, confusing and awkward).
So anyway, it was the day before or dress rehearsal and 2 days before opening night. The director called Jake and I into the small music room to talk to us privately. He had told us earlier in the year that he was thinking about making Aladdin and Jasmine kiss after a Whole New World.

Somehow other people found out and teased us about it. He was really sweet about it and stood up for me.
But anywayys….
This time our director wanted us to practice the kiss. I was pretty nervous. He went back into the theatre with the rest of the cast and the school secretary came in. She got out the CD player and changed it to the end of a Whole New World. We kneeled down like we were onstage, and after a few lines, he took my hands. We looked at each other and sang the rest of the song.

I closed my eyes, but got scared when his lips touched mine, so I pulled back. We tried it a few more times before I got over my nerves, and when we actually did it, it lasted only a few seconds. I was kind of in shock afterwards.

I walked back into the theater and told my sister about it (at the time she was in 5th grade). But she didn’t really care, so I just went on with rehearsals like normal.
On opening night, right after intermission, I remember being backstage and telling him I was really nervous, and he said he was too. I will never forget how sweet he was and how he comforted me. We agreed to just make it a kiss on the cheek.
So the song came and we sang it just like we had done for weeks. At the last few lines, we looked at each other, held hands and I nodded very slightly so he could see it, but the audience couldn’t. Then we sang the last line and he kissed me on the lips! It was amazing (and I know that sounds bad being that he was my best friend’s BF, but it was :] ). The rest of the cast was kind of amazed.

I remember seeing the kids in front of us stop what they were doing to watch us (we were on a raised platform about 7 feet high)
After that, he didn’t really talk to me any more, I guess cause it was awkward for him. He left that year for high school and we weren’t really on good terms. It’s been 2 years and I haven’t talked to him at all. My best friend broke up with him that summer (for other reasons) but we are still close.
Girls, NEVER LET A GUY COME BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR FRIENDS. My BFF and I handled it well, and I am so thankful. True friendship means WAY more than any crush/kiss/BF or whatever. - Loren, 14, Cincinnati

My first kiss was one that seemed like something out of a movie "besides the fact it took place when i was almost twenty, I know I am a really late bloomer", the only thing different about it was that I didn't initiate it, it all just sort of happened.

I was talking to this girl who I knew when i was a lot younger and we hadn't really seen each other in like a good 14 years i want to say and our parents kind of pushed each other to hang out. So we hung out like a couple times and all but nothing serious mostly just stopping in and saying hi if we were around. then one night she invited me over for dinner with her family,after dinner She wanted to go to the beach so me being a swell guy that I am was more than willing to go. This is the part that seems all unreal now, we walk onto the beach and just talk about the stars and how beautiful and big the moon looks and we each say a couple of jokes then she asks me if I was cold and if I wanted to go and me being the experienced idiot I am said yeah and couldn't take a hint.

So I start to walk back with her off the beach and then out of no where she Grabs my hand and says"wait" and then we embrace and begin to kiss under the moon light and stars it felt like it lasted for an eternity. Then she asked me if I liked it and if I wanted to do it again and I said sure why not and we happened to kiss again for a good 2 minutes. then we said good night i drove her home and well the rest has yet to come. - Andy, 19, New Jersey